Last updated on March 19th, 2019 at 02:32 pm
This post is about how to start losing weight, let’s say 10 pounds, and how to keep them off (without gaining 20 pounds after that). I share 5 simple healthy habits anyone can develop plus the most important part: the mindset you need to have.
“I’m gonna try that cayenne pepper and lemon thing. Our notary lost 50 pounds doing that.”
That’s what my friend at work told me when she saw our notary (who was overweight before) and Beyoncé lose weight with the Master Cleanse as if it was nothing.
She had been trying to lose the same 40 pounds for as long as I had known her. Even though she often said she’s fine the way she is. And I agree she’s a wonderful person and is still a dear friend of mine, even though we don’t see each other that often anymore.
The thing is, my friend wanted that change and even though she was “fine”, once a seemingly easy solution like the Master Cleanse presented itself – she was all eyes and ears.
There it was again – the goal of fitting into that dress she bought before she had a baby 4 years ago, wearing a bikini on the beach without having to cover up and just feeling confident about the way she looked.
My friend didn’t end up doing the Master Cleanse and her notary gained all that weight back after a couple of months. And some.
And this, unfortunately, is very common. I’ve seen it happen to many people who’ve been trying to lose weight for years, including many of my friends and family (about 60% of my family members are overweight, for women – especially after they get babies, so I can’t wait for that happy day).
The thing is: they either don’t start at all or always go for a quick fix. For example, I know for a fact that this article right here would be 10,000 times more popular if I had titled it: How to lose 20 pounds in 21 days and wrote something about no carbs. Nobody cares about what happens after losing weight, that it’s still a struggle and that you still need to keep the self-discipline…that’s pretty boring and pathetic. But here’s the truth.
The One Thing You Need To Remember On Your Weight Loss Journey
To achieve anything worthwhile, the one thing you need most is persistence. Not being perfect at it, not being hard on yourself, but being persistent.
You rarely make a major change, because you’ve done something once. Even if you did it perfectly.
So this quick fix mentality, if you have it, it needs to go.
Now how long can you do the Master Cleanse for? A week? Two? Then what?
You can’t be persistent with something that’s
1. too hard and
2. doesn’t feel good AT ALL
The Difference Between Beyonce And The Notary
To lose weight and transform your health you need to fall in love with the habits, that are going to take you there. Because you need those habits to keep going further.
So, the real goal when you’re trying to lose weight is not to look great and to be skinny, it’s to develop the habits that you’re gonna practice even after you achieve what you want.
That’s the difference between Beyoncé and the notary.
That cleanse worked for Beyoncé because she’s always been someone who ate healthy, worked out and was dancing most of the time.
But for someone like the notary, who sits for a living, overeats and has a love affair with sugar, the Master Cleanse doesn’t do a thing.
Sure she would lose the
How To Lose 10 Pounds Without Gaining 20 Pounds After That
The key to losing any amount of weight without gaining it all back is to change your habits AND mindset. Stop trying to lose weight just to lose weight, change the way you think and feel about it.
If you need a simple action plan to lose 10 pounds in one month, you can check out this post…But, and this is a big but, to keep it off, you need to start with the following things in mind.
1.Focus on Feeling Good
The habits we wanna develop and practice should feel good.
Because even if something is challenging if it kinda feels good and helps you get where you wanna go – you’re more likely to do it again. And it will be hard only for a little bit.
For example, I know people recommend drinking apple cider vinegar to suppress appetite. Well, I don’t like apple cider vinegar outside of a salad. If I try to make this a habit – it will be something I hate and eventually won’t do it at all.
But I know the other thing that suppresses appetite is working out. Exercise is challenging for me and everyone else, but I kinda like it. So I do a 10-minute workout. Do the thing you actually enjoy.
Then there’s the next tip.
2.Do it first
You probably have a set of habits and things you’d rather do instead of doing something that’s hard, but feels good and will bring you more benefits along the way.
For me, that’s drinking coffee instead of water.
So what I’ve now committed to do is do the right thing first, which is drinking water. When I do that often enough, I actually stop craving coffee (which is HUGE to me).
Another thing: usually in the morning I would just grab my phone and scroll through stuff. That’s easy, even though it doesn’t really feel good – I do it anyway.
The habit that makes me feel really really good in the morning is exercise.
Now that habit requires more effort.
What I now do is: I wake up and exercise for at least 5 minutes before I look at my phone. 5 minutes feel so good, that I do more after that.
3.Remember, Today is the right day to start.
Stop hesitating and waiting for everything to be perfect. People are afraid to even listen to common sense and start eating healthy, just because they’re not sure if that’s gonna work for them. Because they’re not sure if there isn’t a shortcut somewhere. (there isn’t, trust me!). Don’t wait and don’t hesitate.
The more time you spend looking for the perfect solution, the less time you have to enjoy the ride and the results.
Plus the more you exercise a bad habit, the harder it becomes to develop a good habit. Start now.
Manage your expectations.
You know, at the beginning of the year I was at the heaviest I had been my whole life. I’m not overweight, but that weight gain just didn’t feel right. I was sitting for too long, was stressed and overate. That reality felt so uncomfortable, so not me, that I just wanted to get out of there. I wanted to escape as quickly as possible from this situation.
So I said: I’ll lose those 20 pounds in 2 weeks and be done with. Well, the 2 weeks went by and I was even heavier.
Those expectations put so much pressure on me, that I would self-sabotage just to prove to myself how insane that goal was.
Then I just decided to take it one step at a time. How much on average do people lose in a week anyway? I knew it was about 2 pounds.
So losing those 20 pounds would take me 10 weeks or about three months.
Not two weeks.
Once I started taking it step by step (like week one I will weight ___, week two I will weight ___, and so on…) I started losing weight and feeling better.
Now I still haven’t lost all the weight, but 10 pounds is better than nothing. The point is to be realistic and to keep going in the right direction.
After failing so many times at the same thing, we sometimes lose hope that we’re ever gonna achieve what we want. We’re too much of a failure.
And diet programs and supplement suppliers are no help here. People always make you think you need their stuff to achieve what you want. That you’re lost without those things and you’ll never be healthy if you don’t follow their advice.
You need probiotics, you need fat burners, you need a detailed plan, you need a community…
Actually, you’ve got everything you need:
You’ve got a body (great start!), you’ve got information, got healthy food and you’ve got time (don’t use that excuse!). That is all you need to lose weight.
I’ve heard different things for years from my mom:
“I can’t lose weight, because I have Hashimoto’s.” or “I can’t lose weight – it’s my genes, your grandma was also heavy.”
Both of these are true, but here’s what happened.
Once she started eating healthier (no plan, just cutting out junk food) and walking more – the weight came off quickly. She’s not quite there yet, but on her way. Magic, right?
Trust that a healthy body is not reserved for special people.
It’s everyone’s right – yours too.
If you use common sense with your food choices and habits, you’re gonna feel and look better sooner than you think. Life’s not against you.
5 Easy Things You Should Be Doing To Lose Weight And Keep It Off
Now, let’s get more specific and take a look at the 5 easy habits that can help you lose weight and
1. Drink water.
Such an underestimated tip. Water is where life starts.
Today we’re so dehydrated, we don’t even know what it feels like to actually be hydrated.
We’re constantly complaining how we’re tired, in pain, can’t focus…
Here’s a little known secret: water can fix all of that.
The other great thing about being hydrated is that you stop craving bad things. There are synergies among the things we consume every day and when you drink enough water you actually start craving foods that have water in them. Yes, those are vegetables. So drink more water.
2. Cook More.
There’s a big misconception about cooking healthy and it’s that it takes a long time. It doesn’t.
Most healthy meals take less than 30 minutes to make. In fact, I always keep in mind this as a rule of thumb: If it takes more than 30 minutes to make – probably not that healthy anymore.
Now, the one thing that does take a little bit more time is grocery shopping and wondering what to do with all those groceries. One easy way to make this easier is to use a meal-kit delivery service like Sun Basket. You get all ingredients with the recipe delivered to your home, everything is organic, the recipes are healthy and take around 30 minutes to make.
If you want to try Sun Basket, you can save $45 on all meal plans here.
3. Move, even if you don’t exercise.
Being in one place can’t help a lot with weight loss or feeling good. And it is boring. Out of that boredom, you end up overeating.
Take a walk, start stretching or do 10 minutes of yoga. That is way better than not doing anything. Do something you enjoy.
If you do want to get into yoga at your own pace at home, you can try MyYogaWorks – it’s a great platform with over 1000 yoga videos for all levels. You can get a free trial here.
4. Eat, don’t diet.
Most diets are focused on what you can’t have and what you need to eat in excess. Good examples are high-protein diet, Atkins diet, ketogenic diet, high-carb diet….diet diet diet. These diets can go very wrong if you just simplify the concept of eating more of one macronutrient and avoid the other.
You need to look for diversity in what you eat, for different nutrients that come from different foods.
So eating chicken breast with broccoli every night is not the best strategy. It’s important to develop a healthy relationship with food.
The most important distinction you need to make between foods is natural (one ingredient foods) & processed foods (even if seemingly healthy).
Just so you know – your body did evolve on the natural stuff, so that’s what you can process. The other stuff? Well, your body doesn’t know what to do with it.
5. Stop Being Hard On Yourself.
Relax. If you beat yourself up you’re not gonna make anything better.
Be kind and forgiving. Go at your own pace and don’t blame your body for not being able to drop
If you fall off the wagon, don’t make it a big deal, forgive yourself and focus on catching that wagon. The sooner you do that (so today, not tomorrow), the less time you’ll spend chasing that wagon or waiting for another one.
Which means, if you forgive yourself you’ll get to your goal sooner. We’re all human and make mistakes, and that includes you too.
48 Hour Challenge
So. If you’re up for it, during the next 48 hours, do your best to practice the right thing first, without hesitation.
There’s always time (and opportunity) for a bad habit, so don’t feel like anything is forbidden. Just focus on the things you wanna do first to feel great.
Your action steps:
- Choose 3 healthy recipes for the next 2 days, go grocery shopping and make them
- Or skip the grocery shopping and get your recipes and ingredients delivered by Sun Basket. It’s great if you’re just getting into eating healthy and don’t trust yourself at the grocery store (we all know too well how that works…). If you want to give Sun Basket a try, save some money and get $45 off here.
- Get a big bottle of water and keep it within reach all the time. Whenever you have a craving – drink a sip of water first (Yes, you’ll need to do it a lot at first!).
- Exercise every day for 20-30 minutes. You can go for walks, do at home workouts and if you want to try yoga, the MyYogaWorks 14-Day free trial is the best way to start. Sign up here.
- Sleep 8 hours every night. You’re more likely to make bad choices when you’re tired, so, please give yourself the best chances to win the day by getting enough sleep.
That’s just 2 days, do it for 2 days. See how you feel.
I hope after the 48 hours you see that you can actually do it.
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